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Friday, July 03, 2009

Wouldn’t it be nice?

I would honestly love to be more creative. I really envy those who can paint, draw, sculpt, photograph and all those who perform various interesting art forms.

Artists express themselves so beautifully; it must be such a relief to be able to get your emotions out in a form that soothes and is therapeutic. Pouring your energy (negative and positive) into a creation is quite impressive.

It must feel good as an artist to know people actually care about your work, follow what you do, cherish your expressions. Most of the time in this life I feel as though no one is even listening to what I am saying. They have that glistening look in their eyes like they couldn’t care less. You all know what I mean, like what you are saying has nothing of importance to them whatsoever! It’s very rare to come by a good listener, someone who is not thinking of something else while you are talking. I suppose we are all guilty of it. Maybe being aware is the first step to becoming a good listener!

I suppose in such a fast pace world it is hard to slow down your constant thoughts of what you have to do next. I love the French culture where conversation is still an art and people converse quite frequently over many different topics. My boyfriend is from France and he taught me this. We honestly never run out of things to talk about and even the smallest of details are not left out. It took me a while to get used to hearing all the details, but it is worth it when I get a good listener in returnJ

Since I can’t paint, draw, make music, etc. maybe I can learn to master the art of conversation-the only problem is having someone to talk to!!

Keep listening peeps, you’ll probably learn something new and interesting once and a while-not to mention make someone feel good that they are heard and listened too!

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

I'm Back....

Hello Everybody!!! (Although I am sure there are a precious few who read my blog or find me interesting) but hello regardless…

I have the re-caught the blog bug and have been influenced by my very beautiful good friend Jenn (who recently started a blog- http://jennsarea.blogspot.com/) to continue with this one. Check hers out too!!

So much has changed since my last blog. I believe I have had 2 boyfriends since then, lost and gained a friend or 2 or 3 or 4….hard to keep track to be honest. But overall, quite happy how things have been shaping up…lots of lessons learned, hearts broken and bad dreams. All to teach me that people change, feelings change and this can equate to friendships changing- some for the good and some for the bad. I am sure in the next few blogs friendships will indeed be a large part of what’s on my mind.

As per relationships; I am in a wonderful one right now, with a wonderful man. Getting here was a long journey only my closest friends know. There are ups and downs (mostly ups) and I am excited to see where this one goes….yes you will be hearing about this one as well….

So welcome back to my blog: Sex in Montreal….I actually do live in the heart of the city currently, so the name is completely applicable (and a rip-off from a little show called Sex and the City)

TTYL!

E