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Thursday, June 22, 2006

TO MY LOVED ONES

Friendships are super important to me. I would say that I am a die hard friend. When you are friends with me; I stick up for you, I back you up, I am there for you no questions asked and I NEVER let a man get in between my friendships. I believe true friendships are not about social climbing and to see how many you can aquire, but are about being who you trully are and finding out about yourself and others by your companions. I have been friends with my core group; Jenn, Kat, Sophy, Mary and LIsa since I was 12. That is almost 15 years...it goes by fast. I have also been friends with Carolyn and Lauren since I was 7...now that 17 years!!! (there are others you know who you are slut buddy:))Not many people can say they are still friends with the same people as they were 15 years ago consistently (and I don't mean you e-mail the person and you are still in contact, I mean real friends). This forms an unbreakible bond and a sence of security in which you feel you can conqure and face anything. These friends know me inside and out and accept me no matter what happens or what challenges we face. Although, I do enjoy meeting new people and have recently made new wonderfull friends. Breaking off from the group does not mean we are any less close but we do have seperate lives which is great thing. However, we do all make that special effort every week to call, e-mail and get together. I never question what I have with them!!!I wish my types of friendships upon everyone.