Shoe to Drop

I am enjoying my new relationship n every way possible. My new man is everything I have been looking for, for a long time. He is like my check list; sexy, smart, athletic, motivated, educated, sweet, sexual, the list goes on…He gets along with my friends, my parents like him and I can spend many days with him without needing a break. Yes we have had discussions and mini-fights but I have nothing really to complain about which is very strange for me. I guess you would say I am in the honeymoon phase. Everyone says that this phase does not last and just wait until things start to annoy you. This whole cycle I have been through MANY TIMES makes me sad and ill. I don’t want this to be like every other guy. This one is different. How do you break the cycle…the 8 month post-honeymoon transition where everything gets bad and those butterflies go away? I know a lot of it has to do with hormones and pheromones. I wish this was not the case. I would give anything to feel the butterflies forever. I know that is not possible but maybe there is another way? I hope so because I’m sick of waiting for the other shoe to drop.