Loves and Losses

It is so hard to Love and Lose....Especially when there is no explanation for the loss. Boyfriends and friends alike-it is hard to let go of some of them go. You share so much in relationships....humours, inside jokes, tears, your hopes and dreams just to have it just finally end. You think you can deal with it ending easily, but some of us can't. WHat's worse is that you cannot expalin how you feel to others and others don't understand. They don't understand the hurt that goes along with letting people go or the hurt of trying to hold on. Trying to hold on to something old has recently given me some pain. I guess I was nieve to think that person still held something for me as well...being wrong did hurt the ego but in the end I think things ended as they should....what's meant to be will happen right? It's just hard to admit to yourself that someone you care about does not care about you in the same way. But I guess its better to put yourself out there for love then to ignore it...The only things worth it in life are either risky or something you have to work at!!! I truly believe that.