September

Dealines....we all have them. To pay bills, school papers...ages we want to be married, have kids by. But when do we ever really go by our age deadlines. Pregnancy can happen unexpectantly, you may never meet someone you want to marry or life can throw you a curveball. Are we suposed to feel bad if we cant meet our deadline? Are we not mean to be happy if we don't have kids or if we don't have a husband or wife? On the other hand if we know what we want and we are working for it whats wrong with having an end point in mind. I want to be done school by 2007. Is there something wrong with that. But what if I get sick or something happens and I cant meet the deadline, am I a bad person? What about dealines we give others....I will give him till blank to prepose or I will end it if he doesnt get a job by then. Are dealines fair if the other person doesnt know about it. Why do we give dealines. I think it is because we are afraid of making descsions-especially big ones- for fear of the consequences. Making deadlines can put blame on the other person for your descision. Making dealines also gives a certain ammount a fate popping in and being part of the equation... all I know is Spetember is my deadline.